WELCOME

Polly Gravely counseling
Individual & Couples' Therapist, Coach, MFT, LPC

Hello and welcome!

I’m an experienced and licensed therapist specializing in relationships, working with both individuals and couples. For over a decade, I’ve helped hundreds of people work through challenges — whether with themselves (anxiety, depression, self-doubt), or with others (family, partners, colleagues).

Trained as a Marriage & Family Therapist, I see problems in terms of relational patterns. We all behave in predictable relational ways. In line with attachment theory, I track these interactional patterns that get people stuck — stuck in cycles of shame, criticism and defensiveness, anxiety and others.

With insight and attunement to underlying emotions, I can help you understand what lies underneath your reactive dynamics so that you can break free from limitations and move into more satisfying relationships and life.

My collective skills mean I can help you:

  • gain insight into your relational patterns
  • manage stress and burnout
  • sort through conflict productively so that there’s healthy resolution
  • understand and resolve anxiety, depression and low self-esteem
  • improve intimacy and emotional connection
  • heal from infidelity
  • find your meaning in your life

In my work I draw from several approaches that include Attachment Theory, Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), the Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems (IFS), psychodynamic theory, and hypnosis.To learn more about my approach, here’s a short video.

Therapy can change lives. I hope I can help you with yours. Please reach out for a free consultation, and let’s begin.

Licensed in both Oregon (for in-person and telehealth) and Washington (via telehealth).

 

From a colleague:

“Polly has been a close colleague of mine for over a decade. Her wisdom and kindness have been ever-present in her work. She has a knack for getting to the heart of the matter and supports her clients with deep healing and lasting change. I highly recommend Polly in her capacities as a therapist, teacher, and consultant.”

Sarah Block, MS LPC

Focus

Coaching & therapy work

In therapy, I help develop understanding and resolve issues of:

  • Anxiety
  • Conflict
  • Loss of connection and intimacy
  • Midlife struggles
  • Loss of purpose
  • Burnout
  • Depression

In coaching:

  • Enhance leadership & management skills
  • Improve workplace dynamics
  • Develop effective and empowered communication